We never sell your data

Nothing your family types is ever used for ads or marketing — it’s built into the architecture, not just promised.

We don’t read your kids’ chats

They’re stored so the dashboard and safety flags work; a human only opens one in narrow, logged cases — a safety flag to you, a problem you ask us to fix, or a legal must.

You decide what’s kept

Set how long history lasts — and view, export, or permanently delete any of it, anytime.

Delete means delete

Gone from our systems right away, and out of encrypted backups within 30 days.

AI providers don’t train on your family

Anthropic and OpenAI process conversations under terms that prohibit it.

Concerns come to you

A sensitive moment goes back to your family — never anywhere else.

Behind HiFam is a small family team — not a faceless company — and we hold your family’s data to the standard we want for our own. If anything ever worries you, or you spot something you think we should know about, just email us at hello@hifam.com. We’d genuinely rather hear from you. That’s the whole reason we built this ourselves instead of leaving it to Big Tech.— The HiFam family

The full policy


Effective June 11, 2026  ·  Last updated June 11, 2026

1.Who this policy applies to

HiFam is designed to be set up and managed by a parent or legal guardian (the “Account Holder”). The Account Holder must be at least 18 years old. Children use the Service only under an account created and controlled by their parent or guardian. We do not allow children to create their own accounts, and we rely on the Account Holder to provide and manage consent for each child profile they add.

2.Information we collect

Information you provide

Information created through use of the Service

3.Children’s privacy (COPPA)

We take the privacy of children seriously and design the Service to comply with the U.S. Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act (“COPPA”).

4.How we use information

We use conversation content to operate the Service and the features you enable. We do not sell your or your family’s personal information, and we do not use it to serve third-party advertising.

Humans see as little as possible. We do not routinely read conversations — we’re a small team with a long to-do list, and your eight-year-old’s deep dive on Minecraft mobs isn’t on it. Improving the Service uses aggregated, de-identified metrics, not a person browsing your child’s chats. A team member opens an identifiable conversation only in narrow, access-controlled, logged cases: to deliver a safety flag to you, to investigate a problem you ask us to fix, or where required by law. Children’s identifiable conversations are not used as training material.

Conversations never touch marketing. There is no path connecting anything you or your child types to advertising, marketing, or email targeting — the marketing system has no access to conversation data, by design. We keep your account email and may tell you about HiFam and our other products, but those messages are never customized using conversation content, and you can opt out in one click.

5.How we share information

We share information only in the limited circumstances below:

We never sell your data, and we never share it with advertisers.

6.Data retention & deletion

You control how long your child’s conversations are kept. Each child profile has a history-length setting. Conversations older than the window you choose are automatically and permanently deleted on a recurring sweep — anything you’ve saved, and any conversation flagged for safety, is kept regardless. You can also delete individual conversations, a child profile, or your entire account at any time, and export your family’s data whenever you like.

Deletion is real. When you delete something — or when a conversation reaches the end of its retention window — we hard-delete it from our active systems promptly (not a quiet “soft delete” tucked in a basement we pretend to forget about), and it is purged from our encrypted backups within 30 days. The limited exceptions are records we must retain to comply with legal obligations, resolve disputes, or enforce our agreements. Account information we don’t need is kept only as long as necessary to run the Service.

7.How we protect information

We use administrative, technical, and physical safeguards designed to protect your information. Conversations and account data are encrypted in transit and at rest, access is restricted on a need-to-know basis, and we monitor our systems for vulnerabilities. No method of transmission or storage is perfectly secure, so we cannot guarantee absolute security, but we work hard to protect your family.

8.Your rights and choices

You can, at any time:

Depending on where you live, you may have additional rights under laws such as the California Consumer Privacy Act (CCPA) or the EU/UK General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR), including rights to access, correct, delete, or restrict the use of your personal information, and to not be discriminated against for exercising those rights. To make a request, email hello@hifam.com. We will verify your request and respond within the time required by applicable law.

9.Cookies and analytics

Our website uses a small number of cookies and similar technologies — the boring digital kind that keep the site working and remember your preferences, not the kind that improve your afternoon. We use them to operate the site and understand aggregate usage. You can control cookies through your browser settings. We do not use cookies to build advertising profiles of you or your children.

10.International users

We are based in the United States, and the Service is operated from the United States. If you access the Service from outside the U.S., you understand that your information will be processed in the U.S., where data protection laws may differ from those in your country.

11.Changes to this policy

We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time. When we make material changes, we will update the “Last updated” date above and, where appropriate, notify you by email or within the Service. Your continued use of the Service after an update means you accept the revised policy.